It's good for your kids to be disappointed. Sometimes I think parents go to extremes to keep their kids from being disappointed...jumping through hoops, saying "yes" to everything...but that's a big mistake. Disappointment is a part of life and learning to deal with it with a healthy attitude benefits them and develops maturity. Walk in the freedom you possess to say "no" when you feel it's in the best interest of your kids and your family. Embrace the opportunity to allow yo